Let us try to keep Wisdom and Essentiality in our daily lives, because these help us to avoid wasting our Energy.
Wisdom can be considered both the arrival point, and the starting point: to understand this we must live in a wise way.
Which is the wise way to live, each of us must search for a suitable one. It will be the way of living that is in conformity with our true Being.
Therefore, we are not talking about a Wisdom that is the same for everyone, but of the one practiced by the human being when he lives, loving himself.
Here we go back to the principle idea: everything flows, when we love ourselves, when we are accepted, loved and understood, Life becomes simple.
Wisdom inevitably leads to Essentiality, because living wisely means you do not store up experiences that weaken the energy, instead of enriching it.
Every experience that we have attracted and Life offers us is useful but not always necessary. Useful because sometimes we need to go back and repeat the same experience many times to understand the outline of the situation.
This is its utility, but it is unnecessary when we begin to deal with situations in an essential way, understanding the teaching within the situation, and discarding everything relating to our personality.
The most obvious example is the person who constantly has problems with other people.
There are certain individuals who seem unable to have harmonious relationships with others, and always attract the same type of person.
What is the wisest way to face these situations? To understand that the world is not made up of evil, stupid people always in conflict with us, but that we – among all the beings of the Universe – continue to attract those people with characteristics that are completely in contrast with our way of being.
Why?
Because we need to, because through them we will be able to understand ourselves. Dealing with these people is necessary for us to put the Personality aside, not try to understand the other, but simply try to understand ourselves.
This is Essentiality.
Therefore, let us recapitulate: Wisdom to understand the lesson in the situation we have attracted, and Essentiality to deal with it without fuss or events that make it heavy going. Trying to understand the other person immediately makes it laborious.
The worst thing of all, is to attribute intentions to others and be certain that they behave in a certain way (always against us) because of these intentions. We do not consider the fact that we do not know what the person’s intentions are, and we cannot know then if our interpretation of them is correct.
To live well means to live in a wise and essential way, so that we do not waste our Energy, but cherish it so that every moment of our lives is really one of enrichment and Awareness.