Life is a wonderful, uncomplicated teacher, but it is important that you understand the mechanism.
If I want to learn a new language, and the teacher speaks to me in that language, it is useless for me to carry on speaking my own language, I must listen to the teacher. Life works the same way. In continuation, Life offers us events we need to help us understand. Why? Not to give us what we want, or highlight a part of us that we think should be singled out, or a part that we think should be concealed, but simply to guide us, every second, so that we emit certain vibrations.
These vibrations “enter” the Energy and make it harmonious because, we have managed to emit the correct and appropriate answers.
When we are harmonious, within us, what we call “Destiny” is revealed, meaning all those strange meetings, those unexpected events, everything that happens for better or worse. Unfortunately in the unexpected, there are also catastrophes, deaths and incidents, but also many beautiful things.
Usually you speak of destiny as something that Life has in store for you, and suddenly makes it happen. It is not like that.
Each of you have chosen your Life because through this Earthly pathway (events, meetings, circumstances)you have the chance of emitting vibrations that are beneficial to your Energy.
This is why we are on Earth, everything that happens is only to help us give off the right vibrations. If my Energy wishes me to be patient, or generous or be committed etc. then I must live each moment with the Awareness that everything that Life offers me NOW, is so that I can emit vibrations that are useful to the Evolution of my Energy.
That is how Energetic Harmony is created, and when my Energy is harmonious, then the second phase of my Life begins, what we can really call Destiny.
It is in this phase, when we are harmonious and we have placed our trust in Life, that Life will use us for the real purpose of our incarnation.
To clarify further, there are Lives that drag themselves from infancy to old age, because they have not understood the real meaning of their existence, and however hard Life tries to help them with suggestions and stimulus, they either are unable to understand or ignore the signs. To these people, the same things happen repeatedly, they will always find themselves in the same situations, with the same thoughts, and they will always have the same reaction to events without being able to change.
Vice versa, there are Lives that start off stumbling, as most of us do, but the moment we search for the real meaning of Life, and find a convincing answer, everything changes: Lives that began in confusion and searching become totally constructive and important, because their Lives are positive and aimed at Energetic Evolution.